We asked CEOs and bloggers for their top tips on advocating for your child’s healthcare. From erring on the side of safety to being persistent and informed, here are four pieces of advice for parents and guardians navigating their child’s healthcare journey.
- Err on the Side of Safety
- Be Assertive and Prepared
- Trust Your Instincts
- Be Persistent and Informed
Err on the Side of Safety
No one loves your child more than you, so don’t be shy to speak up at doctor’s visits and ask questions. You know for certain you always have their best interest at heart.
Never be afraid of being vocal—whether at an appointment or via phone calling to speak with a health professional. Whenever you get an inclination that something may seem off with your child, take action—it’s always better to err on the side of safety.
I recently wanted my toddler to have a “good experience” at his two-year-old checkup—a trip to the doctor’s where he doesn’t leave in tears after a shot. I asked the pediatrician if some of the scheduled blood work might be moved to our next appointment in six months. No problem. He said there was no rush to prick his fingers. We moved it out six months, and my little man left all smiles.
He now plays doctor at home, checking his sister’s temperature with his fake thermometer, and can’t wait to go back to see the doctor. As a mother, it was important for me that he have a good interaction and not be scared to go see the doctor. Had I not asked, perhaps our experience would have been much different.
As a parent or guardian, you have the last say in what medicines or shots are administered to your child—given early, all at once, delayed a few months, or skipped entirely. Don’t hesitate to ask questions and advocate on what you feel is right for your child in the moment.
Amy Johnson
Founder and Blogger, AmyBabys.com
Be Assertive and Prepared
One of the most important things I’ve learned in advocating for my child’s health care is the power of being both informed and assertive. It’s critical to thoroughly research your child’s condition, ask questions, and ensure you understand the options presented by health care providers.
I’ve found that when you come prepared and engage in a collaborative dialogue with other doctors, it makes all the difference in securing the best possible care. My advice to other parents is: trust your instincts. If something feels off, don’t hesitate to seek a second opinion or ask for clarification.
Being your child’s advocate sometimes means pushing past your comfort zone to ensure their needs are met. Additionally, keeping detailed records of appointments, treatments, and any symptoms can help streamline communication with health-care professionals and ensure nothing falls through the cracks.
David Hill, MD
Plastic Surgeon & Medical Director, Fulcrum Aesthetics & Surgery
Trust Your Instincts
As a doctor and a mother, the most important thing I’ve learned about advocating for your child’s healthcare needs is that you have to trust your instincts. No one knows your child better than you, and if something doesn’t seem right, it’s important to speak up—even if you’re being told otherwise. Doctors and healthcare providers are experts in their field, but they only see a snapshot of your child during a visit.
As a parent, you have the full picture, and your concerns should always be taken seriously. I’ve had instances where I knew something wasn’t right, despite normal test results, and pushing for further investigation turned out to be the best decision.
In practical terms, parents should be as informed as possible about their child’s condition or symptoms. This doesn’t mean falling down the rabbit hole of internet searches, but rather being an active participant in the process. Ask questions until you fully understand the diagnosis or treatment plan, and don’t be afraid to seek a second opinion if you’re unsure.
Healthcare can sometimes feel overwhelming with all the medical jargon, but as a parent, you have the right to clarity. In my experience, being informed not only helps you advocate more effectively but also empowers you to make decisions that you feel confident about.
Maria Knobel
Medical Director, Medical Cert UK
Be Persistent and Informed
One thing I’ve learned about advocating for my child’s health care needs is the importance of being persistent and informed. Health care systems can be overwhelming, so staying organized, asking detailed questions, and not hesitating to seek second opinions are crucial. My advice to other parents is to trust your instincts—you know your child best.
Keep detailed records of symptoms, treatments, and conversations with doctors, and don’t be afraid to push for more information or options. Ultimately, your advocacy can make a significant difference in getting the care your child deserves.
Tanya Lamont
CEO, Conversational